Our Mission

To present Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord to business and professional men and to develop Christian business and professional men to carry out the Great Commisn.

“I have certainly seen the oppression of my people in Egypt; I have heard their groaning and have come down to set them free. And now, come, I will send you to Egypt. “This Moses, whom they rejected when they said, Who appointed you a ruler and a judge? — this one God sent as a ruler and a deliverer through the angel who appeared to him in the bush. This man led them out and performed wonders and signs in the land of Egypt, at the Red Sea, and in the wilderness for forty years.” Acts 7:34-36 CSB https://bible.com/bible/1713/act.7.34-36.CSB

It was God Who initiated the freeing of Israel from slavery in Egypt. It was God Who promised to come and free Israel from slavery. How did He do such a thing? Through the man Moses. Through man, Moses, God delivered Israel by empowering him with God’s power to accomplish His work. This is how God works in the world. God initiates and calls a man and then enables that man to do the work of God in the world.

In this way, God receives all the glory for the work accomplished. The godly man, the leader God chooses, must make himself available to God and obey God by doing the work God has assigned. The man doesn’t have to be perfect, as Moses repeatedly demonstrated. The man does have to be faithful, which Moses also shows repeatedly. If we will be God’s man and a leader in God’s kingdom, we must seek God to do God’s work in the world, looking for His direction and empowerment to complete that work. The specificity of that work will come from our relationship with God and through our relationships with others.

God’s work, generally, establishes God’s kingdom upon earth as it is in heaven. It intentionally and systematically seeks and saves the lost, making disciples of the saved until all are reconciled to God and walking in obedience to His commands. It is this work for which we will be rewarded by our God and Savior, Jesus Christ, Who will judge all people, expecting all of His people to be connected to the vine and bearing much fruit. It is the fruit that demonstrates connectivity and glorifies God on earth as He is glorified in heaven, for which we will receive eternal reward.

Our Opportunities

CBMC National Men's Conference October 3-5 in St. Louis, MO. Plan to join and meet new brothers who love the Lord and serve Him in the marketplace across America. Mark your calendar busy for those dates, and then register here. Also, plan to join the bus from Michigan to attend this event. For an additional $200, we will ride in comfort with the men from Michigan to St. Louis. A great adventure awaits. I hope you will join us.
Join CBMC men for prayer and Bible study every Friday morning 8-9am at Panera Frandor

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MONDAY MANNA

A service to the business community

A Publication of CBMC International

May 13, 2024

Making Peace In The Face Of Hostility

By Rick Boxx

Recently, I received a call from a former work colleague whom I had not heard from in years. He quickly launched into an angry tirade about an email I had written to others that he received when it was forwarded by someone. He misunderstood the facts I had presented in the email, resulting in anger and frustration on both our parts when he confronted me.

Even though I felt this man’s emotional outburst was unjustified and out of line, I knew that we shared the same faith in Jesus Christ. Therefore, since he was my brother in Christ, I needed to clear the air and seek to resolve the conflict. The fact that I had not done anything wrong, I concluded, was irrelevant. I set out to express my side of the situation, explaining how my peer had misinterpreted what I had stated in the email. After we discussed the miscommunication and apologies were exchanged, he and I were able to make peace and part on amicable terms.

This incident stayed in my mind for a while as I wondered how the problem could have been avoided before it started. All of us being imperfect individuals, unintended conflicts inevitably arise no matter how much we try to avoid them. Later, I sensed God reminding me of times during my childhood when my brother and I would fight, often over matters of little importance. I also remembered how our mother would wisely insist that we apologize and shake hands to restore our relationship.

As I have studied the Bible and its wisdom for the 21st century marketplace, I have discovered that one of its central themes is relationships – our relationship with God, and relationships we have with other people, whether at work, in our homes, or those we encounter over the course of a day. Here are a few of the principles the Scriptures provide about handling conflict:

Forgiveness is not optional. Our tendency is to think if the person who has wronged us seeks our forgiveness, we might grudgingly give it. And then again, we might not. But that is not the standard Jesus Christ set for His followers. He said, “But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matthew 6:15).

Disputes should be settled quickly. If not promptly resolved, conflicts can fester and escalate into greater problems. In other words, turning the proverbial molehill into a towering mountain. It might not be possible to address issues immediately, but it does no good to avoid working through them and seeking resolution as soon as possible. “In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry” (Ephesians 4:26).

Pride can be a big obstacle in resolving conflict. A good rule to follow is that the relationship is more important than determining who is right and who is wrong. Having the humility to work toward forgiveness and reconciliation is an effective remedy for pride. “An offended brother is more unyielding than a fortified city, and disputes are like the barred gate of a citadel” (Proverbs 18:19).

A wise person once made the observation, “We cannot keep birds from flying over our head, but we can keep them from building a nest in our hair.” In business, miscommunication can cause damaged feelings, but willingness to both offer and seek forgiveness can bring healing.

CBMC Central Michigan 4407 W. St. Joe Hwy. Lansing 48917 / 517 481 5996 lansing.cbmc.com

MONDAY MANNA

A service to the business community

A Publication of CBMC International

May 13, 2024

Reflection/Discussion Questions

Can you think of a recent experience when a misunderstanding or miscommunication resulted in heated emotions between you and another person? How did you address that conflict? Do you think it was resolved properly?2.
What are your thoughts about initiating attempts to resolve a dispute with another individual, even when you feel certain that you were not the cause of the problem? How can pride present obstacles to conflict resolution?
How easy – or difficult – do you find it to forgive someone who has offended you or wronged you in some way?
Do you agree with the statement that relationships with other people are more important than the determination of who is right and who is wrong? Why or why not? Give an example if you can.

NOTE: If you have a Bible and would like to read more, consider the following passages: Proverbs 14:29, 17:27, 20:3, 26:20-21, 29:11; Mark 11:25; Luke 11:4; 2 Corinthians 2:9-11

Challenge for This Week

Sometime during the next week, consider how you typically respond when someone responds to you in anger. Being misunderstood, or having something we say misinterpreted can be hurtful, making us feel defensive. Are there any changes you might need to make? If so, seek out a trusted friend, advisor or mentor and talk about how you might address conflicts with others more effectively, especially when they seem unjustified.

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Making Peace In The Face Of Hostility

Making Peace In The Face Of Hostility

By Rick Boxx